Before taking steps towards divorce, it is crucial to be clear about your intentions and the possible consequences. Only you can decide for yourself whether to divorce, but we can explain the consequences comprehensively.
Typical consequences of divorce are:
- Arrangements for parental responsibility and care of children.
- Possible maintenance to the former partner.
- Fair division of assets accumulated during marriage.
- Division of pension entitlements.
Once you understand possible consequences and decide to divorce, clarify whether your partner also agrees. If so, a joint application is possible. Both must agree to divorce, but need not agree the consequences. We recommend reaching agreement on consequences beforehand for an orderly process and less conflict, particularly with children.
A divorce agreement may settle details. The court generally approves terms unless clearly inappropriate. Child arrangements receive particular scrutiny and may be adjusted for their welfare. We strongly recommend legal help drafting the agreement to achieve the best results for both parties.
If only one wants divorce, a unilateral claim rather than a joint application is filed. This generally requires two years of separation or special circumstances making longer waiting unreasonable.
In summary: learn about all divorce consequences beforehand. Our website's legal resources provide extensive information. Use them to make a considered decision, then clarify your partner's position.